Saturday, 10 November 2012

Gardens by the Bay

Woke up this morning and still wasn't too sure what to do with Isaiah. Do I bring him to the wet market and do some groceries, come home and do activities with him or do I bring him to the library? Or to Gardens by the Bay?.....It was until when we were ready to leave the house that I decide we should go since the weather looked rather fine. We went for a quick breakfast, hopped into a cab and off we went.
 
Arrival at Gardens

Not knowing where or how we should proceed after we got off the cab. While walking I saw some people queueing up for the tram ride at the Information Counter and decided to join the queue, got our tickets and we boarded the tram. They call it the Garden Cruiser.

 
He was excited as it's his first visit there too...dunno what to anticipate


Some of the sceneries while riding on the cruiser


 We decided to make monkey faces
 
While we were on the cruiser, Isaiah commented loud enough that the driver heard him "nagging" that he wants to go onto the Super Tree. When we finally reached the stop, Isaiah was more than happy to hop off. (I think the driver was also more than happy to let us off...Isaiah too naggy..lol)
 
 
 Some of the views up there
 
 After going up the super tree...I am surprised Isaiah commented that he is hungry and would want to look for food....I am more than happy and quickly made our way to find a eating place....The Char Siew Noodle was good...
 
 
 
 While having our lunch, the sky was getting darker. I was worried that once it rain, we will not be able to get back to the Cruiser and I don't have a map or umbrella with me....did try to rush Isaiah to hurry up but was still not fast enough...It began pouring.....
 
I like this picture
 
I like him taking the initiative to problem solve with me when I tell him of the situation. He went around to look for a map when I told him that I didn't picked one up at the entrance and when I told him the cruiser might not come to pick us up...he said it's fine and let's try walking and see if we could get to the dome. He was patient with me as I was suffering from sciatic nerve problem, we walk, sit and talk along the way till we found the dome.
 


 
 
 
After taking several pictures of him. he insisted it should be his turn soon and he wants to take picture of me too...
 
 


 
Suddenly, I felt that my son is a big boy. Now not only can I do things for him ....He can do things for me too and he can do it well. Visitors in the park was amazed at him taking snap shots of the plants and me. They found him adorable and everyone smile as they walked by.
 
 
I was really enjoying the moment I spent with him. We talked about everything under the sun and though I was in pain, I managed to enjoy the day with him. Its really quality time spent.



Sunday, 4 November 2012

Cherie Hearts Discoveryland

Cherie Hearts Discoveryland is the school that Isaiah attends. It is not a very big school but the people in it are big at heart. I feel safe and reassured when he is in school that he is under great care.
 
One might wonder what is the defination of good to me. Must it be a school that teach him how to read and write? Must it be a school to prepare him for Primary 1? I actually don't think I really read into that.  I just feel that the school must be a place where they feel confortable in and learning naturally will come in place. Of course, there will be a time whereby I will have to prep him but I don't think it is just the school's role to teach him solely on how to read and write. It will be my duty to guide him too.
 
Recently there was this open house organised by his school and i took some snap shots of the exhibition.
 
This term they are on food theme and they decided to come up with this idea of supermarket.

 
They learnt parts of chicken...Can you spot Isaiah's work?

 
 
They did collage of crabs for the seafood section. (This work Isaiah was not involved coz he had to stay away from school)

 
Angus Beef and Pork Belly were beautifully and realistically painted by the 4 years old. There were photos of showing children at work...

 
Salami and Sauages ..... Anyone????



The various cuts of beef.... 

I was happy to spot one of Isaiah's chinese work.

Some watermelons and sweet potatoes. Yes some of the work requires the teacher's help to finish it but there were lots of involvement of the children as well.
 
There were many more pictures which I had taken and many more exhibits to show but in the end decided not to...coz of "copyrights" of the teachers...lol...

Thursday, 25 October 2012

I just need to blog today!

Recently there had been some changes at work. The company has a new CEO... a famous and well respected lady from the industry.

In a way I do see that with her expertise...we will be moving forward to a better future for the company and maybe even for staffs.  She had commented she will look into the staff benefits too. She had many plans and interesting ones too.

One of the changes that she is going to implement was to place a few of us who are ECCE trained back into centre to assist with the enrolment. When she did the announcement last week, I was excited and in a way looking forward to it. The other colleagues came out, feeling angry and was banging table saying that they want to resign. However while they were in the meeting today.. they were as meek as a mouse. When CEO prompt them to speak up, they just kept quiet. Instead, today I was the one who rejected where she was going to place me. I spoke up for myself and explained to her why it was not possible for me to take up that particular location. It is not only far but it will also implicate my family routine and logistics.

And during the meeting, the other three was out to impress her and kept boasting about their experience. I shot them down by telling them that I can never picked up as much years of experience as them for a fact that I am much younger. OOooohhh... It is definitely not because I am jealous or anything...but just felt extremely gross at the "enthusiasm" when they actually had none at all. They are so fake.

For whole of last year, there were no one to impress, so they were behaving themselves...but now they are back at it again....Awww!!!!....HOW I WISH THEY ARE NOT IN EXISTENCE!!!

Monday, 3 September 2012

Early childhood

I went for a training today and got a chance to meet up with other teachers from my organisation as well as from PCF. We had a little exchanged on what the Government's recent views on ECCE and these were what was concluded..."It is always so easy for them to propose and execute their ideals but they never understood what is on the ground and set realistic goals for educators to follow"...
 
Give children their childhood and not over teach
 
Oooo!!! Oh yes!!! we need to give children back their childhood. Well said!!! Achievable? You tell me, with all the streaming and PSLE... How can any parent coolly say that they are fine with all the streaming and PSLE and is alright if their child do not make it to the main stream? Almost everyone will start to look for the best childcare or Kindergarten to the ideal Primary School even when the child is still in the infancy stage and whatever the school cannot provide, they will send their child to Enrichment Classes.
 
Parents have also degenerated to not knowing what to do with their own children when they do no have a class to send their child to. I have heard comments from parents that they are actually making sure that the children are spending their time worthwhile.

Yes, nowadays Pri 1 & 2 have no exams...however, the government is not rectifying the problem. They are just delaying the process... at the end of the day the children still have to struggle to get to the school top few.
 
It had been drilled into everyone of us that people are the only resources that we have and we have to be the elite few. I had once read in Straits Time that Singapore has the most OCD cases in the world...we became a country of perfectionist and can withstand failure.  Therefore, these are the "must do" and "foolproof" method that most parents will follow just to make sure that their children do not loose out in future.
 
Here I am, kind of caught in between. I do not want do what most parents do (sending children to Enrichment Class) but at the same time I do question myself whether am I doing enough for my son. At the moment, I am still giving my son his well deserve childhood and only sent him for one Language class. Other than that I am exposing him through books and real life experiences and yes....Learning Through Play!!!!


Learning Through Play
As an Early Childhood Educator and parent myself, I know children learn best through play...Be it incidental play or playing with a purpose.
 
It is always easier to encourage parents to do so but I also understand they are not easily convinced. The "insecurity" that they have when they see their child are not writing as much as their peers from other school. Definition = more writing must be good, able to spell = smart.
 
There are many instances children can learn to read and spell....they learn to read signages when they supermarket or shopping...they can write on sand and not necessary on paper....they learn counting when they count how many steps they took when they go up and down the steps...they learn colours through the surrounding that they see....learning is EVERYWHERE!!!! When they help to set the table for dinner, they are doing one to one correspondence, when they wear shoes and socks they are learning about pairs..
 
All the parent need to do is just get the children more involved in their daily living and experience they will not need to pay money to Enrichment Centres to teach these concepts. But sad to say, most parents are just relying on school to teach...
 

Higher Trained Teachers
Government & Parents heavily stressed that to bring up the quality of ECCE teachers, they must all further go training, it is also a path which I agree that most of us must take in order to improve ourselves and keep abreast of all issue pertaining to children's development.
 
However, the government must also remember that it is NOT necessary that all degree trained teacher equates to GOOD teacher with Passion and does what is right for the children.
 
We are unlike other industries, when graduated they just handle issues and asked for high pay. We handle tender lives and plays an important role in moulding them and allowing them to grow up in the right path. Its life we manage. My job in auditing allowed me to meet so many qualified teachers (on paper) doing worst than a teacher who does not have the paper qualification but what she does can bring to shame for those who had.
 
In the market now, there are really a lot of teachers with qualification but no experience and yet asking for $3k and above. They have no passion, they are simply going through the motion of doing and they could not even do the basic of being reflective on their daily work. They only complained at each basic request from us and kept saying that it is not possible to achieve.
 
I know of a few teachers who fell through the gap of not having paper qualifications and due to some reason they do not have the training path. They are doing so much for the children and yet not being recognised. I feel for the children in losing such dedicated and capable teachers. I really hope the government who is eagerly trying to meet in being the world best....do not overlooked these dedicated teachers. There are really more crappy teachers in the industry and those being able to work.... 
 
At the end of the day, it's the Education system that need to change so that Parents' mindset will change. By adding more things to do for the staffs is not exactly good when they can't even manage the basics. Keep asking staffs to go for studies is also not necessary be the only way to bring or keep good teachers in the market. Set goals that are achievable and not blindly follow other country.
 

Wednesday, 29 August 2012

My SoN!!

Just yesterday my son commented " I am scared, I am so scared that I want to run out from this house."
 
That sentence broke my heart. Isn't this house supposed to be his refuge??? Isn't this house supposed to be the house that he finds peace and love? Why did he have to pass this remark? Am I really such a bad mother that caused my own son wanting to run away from me? I am really hurt.
 
By the way, my son is only 4 years old this year. He does not understand that discipline still have to be done and he thinks that we don't love him. He has a very strong pride....Haiz



I really need to put into practice what I had learnt. It is just how to managed a strong willed child is difficult especially when they are growing up. As compared with other children whom I had handle so far in my education line, he is really nothing "bad". But I guess the saying of handling own child is always different from managing other children. I really need to take a step back and spend more time with him in doing an activity together, activities which he and I can enjoy.


Isaiah, if you are reading this in future. Mama just want you to know that I love you very much. YOu meant the most to me!!! Nothing could have replaced you and I totally thank God for giving me you in my life!!!! I will do anything just to protect you from harm and never intend to be the one to cause harm to you in anyway. I love our relationship and hope to continue the strong bonding between you and me! I LOVE you my SON!

Monday, 27 August 2012

Grandma & Grandson

Recently son went for a zoo trip with his childcare centre and Popo came along. My initial idea was to get Papa to come along with us so that we may stay behind after the childcare children had left. However, Papa had to go for a full day course so Popo got to join us instead.

 
 
I rented a scooter for Popo to move around the zoo with us and I rented a stroller for Isaiah, but it ended up that Isaiah wanted to zoom around with her and refused to use the stroller. I would have rented a second scooter if I had known that Isaiah refused to nap. Haiz... I ended up walking around the whole zoo on foot. I was dead tired when I reached home.

 
We actually saw much more animals when we moved around on our own. We were able to read and observe the animals more as compare to the excursions.


 
I like to see them talking to one another and sharing their experience. The moment was priceless.


 
 
It was not easy to bring a senior citzen and a child around the zoo but it was made easy and possible with the rental of the scooter. My role ended up as a facilitator to them both as well. I need to make sure they are well fed, well rested, enjoyed what they saw and well educated about the animals. At the end of the day, I am pleased and enjoyed their reponse and their interaction while they spent their day there.


Wednesday, 22 August 2012

Today's Lunch

These are what I had for today's lunch at "Old Hong Kong @ Serangoon Gardens".
 
 
Appetiser...

Rose tea to make us 美美

Stir Fried Prawns with Snow Peas and Celery with XO sauce

Deep Fried Dim Sum ( This is the only thing I didn't eat due to my upset tummy. Too oily)
 
 
Poached Spinach in Superior Broth


Double Boiled Soup with 茶树菇

Glutinous Rice with Lap Cheong

Braised Duck Tongues with Tofu
 
 
 
Of course my lunch with my colleagues are not so sumptous everyday....this is only one of the day!!!....hahahahah
 
 
 


Reasons

One of the reason why I start my blog again is very much to capture the happenings in my life as well as a place for me to express my emotions.

When I was younger, how I managed negative thoughts or feedbacks was to write it all down on a piece of paper and crushed it away to represent that it is not longer an issue for me. It really helps as I have no siblings to share my woes with. I am just a person who needs to pen down my thoughts before it gets too cluttered in my brain and I will start to get super stress.

I am hoping to use this blog as an avenue to also release my stress. Happy = pen it down. Sad= pen it down. Anxiety = pen it down. Hurt = pen it down.

And friends who read my blog, you are welcome to leave comments for me. However, do not be too judgemental on what I have to say as this is about me and how I feel about certain issues.

Of course, there is my dear Lord to turn to but I would still like to express it here. So here I am again! Hahahahaha!!!!!

Saturday, 18 August 2012

Tonight's Dinner (18 August 2012)

Simply loved tonight's dinner with Lili & Charles. We went to have dinner at the Pasir Panjang Food Centre and these are what we had!



Char Kway Teow with lots of vegetables
  
BBQ Chicken Wings

Gong Gong with fried Chye por

Seafood Hor Fun

Salted Fish Fried Rice

Sambal See Hum

It's simply indulgence once in a while...hahahahah